Dealing with a Breakup like a Real Man

You were into a relationship with a Girl whom you can't imagine a day without and suddenly everything ruined by any reason and It turns into a Break Up suddenly everything seems unsatisfactory Your world goes Upside-down. Some Men deal it with a cool attitude.

they act like they don't care and move on while some men grieve sitting alone in a corner (yes men cries too) and it seems that they are just broken because of the love they had for her. So How to deal with it just like a Real Macho Man?

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Well without wasting much time Here are 15 tips for a Man to deal with a Breakup

#Don't 
1. Cry for it everyday - It's ok for Men to cry as i said earlier but crying over and over again for her is not just a guy thing seriously, after all you're dealing a Break Up just like a real Man.

2. Contact - Don't make any contact with her delete her messages but don't delete her number 'cause that's how Men do it ;) Save it for future use, other wise if you feel like calling her after seeing her number in your list then delete it now, and if you let it be there then don't make any call or message if she doesn't do it first.

3. Stalking - Don't do it, well It's as human is natural and we often stalk them after the breakup but c'mon Why're you doing this? just to see How she's doing, how can you care about her? when she didn't? Well stalking her will give you nothing but keep you reminding of her and you won't be able to walk out, be a man just don't care anymore.

4. Sad songs - Trust me guys, Men don't do this way lying on bed and listing to such sad songs which will make you remind of her more, I'm not saying it's bad, listen to them if you feel good but don't listen if you feel getting depressed later.

5. Her friends - Making contact with her friend is also a bad idea it may seem that you were friends with them when she was with you but trust me now when she doesn't matter her friends also don't matter because they'll be her friends and support her only not You.

6. Not Socializing Yourself - It's a really bad idea too, not talking to anyone and no more going out can either make you depressed or even kill you, this will lead not let you moving on drop the idea of being alone, Go out as I said earlier and talk to people.

7. Rebound relationship - This is the worst idea of all however some men do it nicely but it doesn't end up good always, because in rebound relationship chances are someone starts falling the other and it mostly goes one sided be it you or be it the girl, and one sided expectations will crush either your or this girl. and moreover sleeping with a woman just to forget your ex will remind you more of your her.


#Do's
8. Relax - The first thing you need to is Relax and chill just don't think about whatever happened and why it happened. I know for sometime your mind will pop up with things but the First step you do is Relax ;)

9. Friends and Family - After your breakup it's time for you to return to your family and freinds back because when you were with them it might had a problem to manage things Call your friends up, chill with them. similarly Talk with your Family too and most importantly your Parents 'cause as a Man they're your responsibility and you're their asset

10. Get Social - Socialize yourself and go out meet new people take help of your friends for it, Let friends of friends come into your life and make them play their role and create new memories.

11. Grieve properly - Yes, Men cries and everyone else does, it's nothing to be ashamed of, We all know that "A boy's tear is much more meaningful than of girls"  so if the girl meant so much for you just Cry out and as long as much as you can but make sure you don't cry for that reason again 'cause that's sound like a Man ;)

12. Workout - As a Man working out is one of the important thing to make your body fit and healthy, even if you did workout or didn't when you were with your Girl but this is the time when you need to Grow your body and stay Fit. Exercise properly and make it a routine, Join Gym if you didn't and contact with the Trainer for proper workout routine.

13. Dressing  - Look out at your dressing sense 'cause as a man All that matters is Class ;) Focus to dress well and stand out from crowd. Love what you wear.

14. Flirt - Flirt around random girls each day it'll help you boost your self esteem and making you to go to the normal track again.

15. Be Single - Stay single for sometime and focus on your Life goals, career, Family freinds and most importantly, Yourself and enjoy the real side of staying single. Read: Positive side of being Single

If you focused on each point clearly in this Article then it'll help you make it deal with the breakup easier just like how Men deal with it ;) Just Stay happy and Stay Cool and lastly we'll say to Move On with someone if you find a Girl who's your type and can make a good move with You.


GoodLuck,
Parith