Being in a Relationship with someone Who takes you as Granted can be really dangerous for You, Chances are They don't care and you're completely dependent on them that You can't Imagine your Life without them. A relationship like this when you're being trated as Granted will take you nowhere then being hurt and crying.
So here are the Quick Signs to know that You're taken as Granted in a Relationship
Signs which can be seen from Your Side
1. You Care too much - Just more than they deserve you're always ready for them and care too much even if they make you Angry
2. You can't say NO to them - Be it any decision or a future planning you always end up agreeing to there choices or Opinion Even If they ask you for something and you're not in a Mood, You say a Yes even if you're too tired so that they won't get upset.
3. You don't get Angry - You don't get angry on them or You control your anger just to show that Your love overcomes there mistakes, be it small or they did a nasty mistake but You don't get angry to them and end up avoiding it.
4. You can't stay mad - Even if you did get annoyed at that moment and makes a pact to them that "You won't talk to them now" but later or soon you find yourself that you've forgiven them.
5. Priority - They stands on number #1 in your Priority list of important people in your life, you're ever-ready for them and for you Everything matter is there happiness, however they don't feel the same.
6. Your efforts don't count - You do a lot for them to make your Relationship better and to maintain the charm it should have but still What ever you try to do it backfires on you, or it doesn't count.
Now it was signs we covered from your side now we'll talk about your partner and the Signs he/she makes to know that If you're taken for Granted or not"
Signs from your Partner's side
7. They don't pick-up your calls - You're contacting them and all you got is a Voice mailbox to speak, it's annoying isn't it? And let me guess what excuse they make is they were really busy, oh c'mon! were they this much busy that they can't even pick up a call? and if they were then they don't have enough time to call you back? Think about it.
8. They don't care - We all need it in a relationship and obviously when we are the one who cares a lot about them They're free and careless about you that even they don't see your care towards them and they really don't care about you .
9. They say a No every time - You read the above sign that "You can't say a No to them" ? but in return they not even to single thing but say a No to everything you ask for or say.
10. They don't support You - They don't help in making choices or getting a decision or say it your future they don't encourages you support you or give you Moral support.
11. Anger - They gets irritated at every move you make and gets angry at you for just minor things and ends up fighting
12. No Respect - There's no Respect for you in there eyes, be it you, your decisions they don't respect either of them
13. Abuse - There is Abuse in the relationship or they abuse you Mentally or Physically.Talking about physical abuse it mostly happens with Woman when there partner Abuse them physically.
14. You're not their Priority - They treat you like dirt there's no Priority of you in the Relation, All they care about is their Family, friends and other people in their life but not you. Trust me this is the worst part if you're not their priority or you comes in the last in their list then you're been taken as Granted.
15. There's no Value of your Decisions - When it comes about your choices, opinions or advices they always gets ignored and they don't value them it means they simply don't need them.
16. They Ignore you - Your calls, talks or say eye contact they try to avoid you as much as they can because they don't value you at all you're simply being ignored it seems like you don't even exists.
well if these signs are there in your relationship then I'll be big harsh here but Trust me It's time to end this relationship because it'll take you nowhere except depression and getting heartbroken. They take you as granted and you're just fooling yourself either you try to talk to them or just make it over with them as soon as possible.
So here are the Quick Signs to know that You're taken as Granted in a Relationship
Signs which can be seen from Your Side
1. You Care too much - Just more than they deserve you're always ready for them and care too much even if they make you Angry
2. You can't say NO to them - Be it any decision or a future planning you always end up agreeing to there choices or Opinion Even If they ask you for something and you're not in a Mood, You say a Yes even if you're too tired so that they won't get upset.
3. You don't get Angry - You don't get angry on them or You control your anger just to show that Your love overcomes there mistakes, be it small or they did a nasty mistake but You don't get angry to them and end up avoiding it.
4. You can't stay mad - Even if you did get annoyed at that moment and makes a pact to them that "You won't talk to them now" but later or soon you find yourself that you've forgiven them.
5. Priority - They stands on number #1 in your Priority list of important people in your life, you're ever-ready for them and for you Everything matter is there happiness, however they don't feel the same.
6. Your efforts don't count - You do a lot for them to make your Relationship better and to maintain the charm it should have but still What ever you try to do it backfires on you, or it doesn't count.
Now it was signs we covered from your side now we'll talk about your partner and the Signs he/she makes to know that If you're taken for Granted or not"
Signs from your Partner's side
7. They don't pick-up your calls - You're contacting them and all you got is a Voice mailbox to speak, it's annoying isn't it? And let me guess what excuse they make is they were really busy, oh c'mon! were they this much busy that they can't even pick up a call? and if they were then they don't have enough time to call you back? Think about it.
8. They don't care - We all need it in a relationship and obviously when we are the one who cares a lot about them They're free and careless about you that even they don't see your care towards them and they really don't care about you .
9. They say a No every time - You read the above sign that "You can't say a No to them" ? but in return they not even to single thing but say a No to everything you ask for or say.
10. They don't support You - They don't help in making choices or getting a decision or say it your future they don't encourages you support you or give you Moral support.
11. Anger - They gets irritated at every move you make and gets angry at you for just minor things and ends up fighting
12. No Respect - There's no Respect for you in there eyes, be it you, your decisions they don't respect either of them
13. Abuse - There is Abuse in the relationship or they abuse you Mentally or Physically.Talking about physical abuse it mostly happens with Woman when there partner Abuse them physically.
14. You're not their Priority - They treat you like dirt there's no Priority of you in the Relation, All they care about is their Family, friends and other people in their life but not you. Trust me this is the worst part if you're not their priority or you comes in the last in their list then you're been taken as Granted.
15. There's no Value of your Decisions - When it comes about your choices, opinions or advices they always gets ignored and they don't value them it means they simply don't need them.
16. They Ignore you - Your calls, talks or say eye contact they try to avoid you as much as they can because they don't value you at all you're simply being ignored it seems like you don't even exists.
well if these signs are there in your relationship then I'll be big harsh here but Trust me It's time to end this relationship because it'll take you nowhere except depression and getting heartbroken. They take you as granted and you're just fooling yourself either you try to talk to them or just make it over with them as soon as possible.
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