Tips for a Successful date

It would be very difficult to deny the importance of love in our lives. Whether young or old, everyone wants it, everyone needs it. The need transcends all ideologies, all religions, doesn't discriminate between black or white, educated or uneducated, rich or poor. But as important as it is, unless you have a sixth sense, and especially if you lack experience, it could be as frustrating as walking through a labyrinth full of traps.
You could feel you are on a good path for a while, and then suddenly – boom – you do something wrong, and the world turns upside down, you feel you have ruined your chances. It happens.
                                       

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But here are Some practical tips you could use for yourself.

1. First of all, Choose a Place wherever You and your date Find comfort. The place they like'd be good but choosing your's would be Perfect as You know the place very well.
Read: [30 Awesome date location for your First Date]

2. Do make sure to make yourself look presentable. Being dirty or not taking care of your looks will turn away most people from you, especially ones that re more worthy of your attention.

3. Talk calmly, with as much self confidence as you can, while still being honest. Most people are not good actors, and your pretense and acting will be easily noticed by the other side

4. Always try to listen to your date, take care of what He/She said, and respond in kind. In this age, there are more isolated people than ever, and most need someone that can listen.

5. Be honest and open about your intentions and ideas, when you get the other person's attention, relax and talk about your interests and things that inspire and occupy you, as if you are talking with a friend.

6. Analyze the other person's words and body language. Try to adjust your behavior and the way you talk to her using these signs.

7. Be generous and creative, if you go on multiple dates with the same person, suggest something new every time. It could be a fine restaurant, a movie, theater, exhibition – but take care of what the other person wants.

8. Be open about your emotions – especially if the dating has progressed, take care to be open about what you feel and avoid hiding how you feel in front of the other person's

Now, there are some things a person should avoid:

1. At any case avoid coming to a date dirty, with messed up looks and careless attitude about your clothing. That could be a turn-off on the first sight

2. Being excessively stingy with money – you don't have to spend money like a billionaire, but no one likes a grudging, miserly type of person's

3. Avoid being pompous and boast only of yourself and your achievements. Do point out your positive sides, but take care not to be aggressive or self-serving. Narcissistic type of person.

4. If the pace of the dating process is not going as fast as you would like , at any condition, avoid being aggressive or pushy, trying to rush things or force them to happen. The more you pressure, the more the other person will resist and get gradually scared of your behavior

5. Emotions are good, and do express them when you can, but at all costs, avoid being aggressive sexually, trying to “score” as quickly as possible. That is a sure way of failure, especially if you are male and trying to seduce a girl.

6. Try to avoid going out to lonely, depressing places, listening to similar music or watching such movies. While honesty is good, a honest and depressed person is not attractive candidate for a relationship..Find a good balance, if you have to talk about problems. Don't make it be a weight that will make the date end with both of you feeling down and depressed.

We hope some of these tips can help you in your future dating!

Team datingum.